

In some cases, getting your hands on lube may be difficult. Anything with “warming” components or flavoring may also cause itching or irritation. If you have access to or are able to buy lube, go for a water-based, unscented option. Your penis is a sensitive area, and some scented lotions can actually cause irritation (which is not fun).Īlways opt for lube. Sure, it’s easy to find around the house and is convenient, but it isn’t ideal for masturbation. When it comes to the best way to masturbate, there’s an enduring myth that lotion is a popular option for a masturbation session, but lotion is not lube. Enjoy some variety in each masturbation session, using varied strokes or trying new ones to keep things spicy. You may find that a stroke you liked at one point makes way for something else in the future. Masturbation is not a one-size-fits-all thing, and it's something you can practice regularly. Once you've found your stroke, switch it up

When in doubt, stay consistent until you find what works for you.

There is no limit to the ways you can use your hand to explore your penis. Some people enjoy rapid strokes, some enjoy slower strokes, and others like a variety when it comes to reaching orgasm. Finding your rhythm when you masturbate takes time and practice. To get things started, use your hand to find a rhythm you love. That’s a key component of your future sex life, and can make you better able to communicate what you want and what you don't - which is an important part of consent. More than that, a good, solid masturbation session also helps you figure out what you like sexually and what you're comfortable with.
